One
time a friend of mine said: “It seems people don’t care anymore.
A lot of people feel that no one in this world really cares about
what happens to them...” He had a point, but I didn't agree with
him totally. Why? Because I believe there is a difference between
true followers of Jesus Christ and those people my friend was
speaking of.
I know and believe that the
Christian faith is a caring faith. Christians care and have concern
for others.
We cannot have a loving and caring attitude
without first seeing
people. As followers of Jesus Christ, we must have Jesus’ attitude
toward strangers. When Jesus ran into people in human need and
suffering, He always saw
them before He did anything else. Secondly, He always had compassion
on them. He loved them, and as He loved them He moved beyond that to
care for them. That is the caring attitude that we are to imitate.
In Luke 10:25-37, when the Priest and
Levite passed by, they saw the same man. They saw the same suffering
and need, but they did not have a loving attitude or a caring
compassion for him. They had knowledge. They were well-trained
and well-learned in the things of religion. They were religious, but
it didn’t make any difference. When they saw a man suffering, they
passed by on the other side of the road. Care is love that looks with
compassion and leads to a ministry of caring action. That’s what
true care is!
I believe in planning and budgeting; but
sometimes we need to be open and responsive to God's interruptions
and unplanned expenses. The Good Samaritan didn’t plan to do a good
deed that day. This is not something he learned or trained for. It is
not something that he could possibly prepare himself for. It is great
when someone can come up with some good deed to do for someone else
and plan it out and act upon that plan. But this is not the
situation that is before us in this parable. No, the Samaritan was
wandering down the road, minding his own business, when a situation
arose before him. He needed to decide on the spur of the moment and
he chose to help the man. The Samaritan gave himself (he came), he
gave his time and he was not too busy to help. He gave his treasure
because he had the courage to help.
At our church, Bethel Christian Fellowship, we always say that we are “a place where a stranger becomes a
friend, and a friend becomes family.” That's true! Now, who is the
STRANGER? Those who are different are the strangers among us. There
are many ways of being different: one can be different by virtue of
values, culture, race, language or religious or political
orientation. And while most of us can find it stimulating or at least
interesting to meet a stranger for a short while, it is a very
different thing to truly open up and allow a stranger to become a
friend.
Yes, more strangers are on the way! And
your hospitality is needed.
Being hospitable is: welcoming the living
God into our lives, building real relationships with people in
tangible need, providing communities of support to those who have
lost their homes and building relationships within our communities,
strengthening our homes, congregations and communities.
That’s why I helped to start an organization called CEEDS (Center of Employment & Education
Development Services) which seeks and plans to help some 5,000 to
7,500 Congolese families who will be arriving in Minnesota. These are
part of the 50,000 Congolese that the State Department is planning
to resettle in the USA through World Relief, Lutheran Social Services
and Catholic Charities.
CEEDS is working in close cooperation with refugee camps throughout Africa and with Congolese and immigrant communities here in Minnesota, local religious groups, and
officials for the purpose of enhancing the integration of immigrant
and refugee youth and others into American society.
Resettling is the phase in their lives when beginning recovery and healing become a possibility. Resettlement itself brings new traumas and challenges which also need to be overcome. Refugees need communities to assist them in coping with, and recovering from, the traumas they have experienced. They require relationships with people who embrace them and foster and nourish wholeness and health. Simply knowing that other people are aware of their situation helps to alleviate fears of isolation and can signal the start of a recovery process which will last for years.
Your
hospitality will make a huge impact in these refugees’ lives. You
can extend hospitality by giving an invitation and a warm, personal
welcome as a sister or brother created in the image of God and
accepting them into your world – with the understanding that it is
unconditional. There is no expectation of a return.
This
requires: trust, risk, openness, humility, sincerity, suspension of
pre-judgments, and a willing heart. And it can involve: sharing a
meal, teaching someone how to drive, collecting clothing for someone
in need, tutoring a student, driving someone to the doctor,
listening, or simply sharing one’s self with another and letting
them into our lives.
When trust is built between refugees and
assisting communities, refugees are free to accept not only material
assistance from these communities but also offerings of love,
friendship and a sense of belonging. Romans 15:7 “Welcome one
another, therefore, just as Christ has welcomed you, for the glory of
God.”
It
has been a blessing being part of a mission-minded family and the BCF
families of churches, and ministering alongside kingdom-minded
leaders. The Bible tells us that God is building His Kingdom where
His reign is acknowledged and His intentions are fulfilled. Our part
in that is to proclaim the good news of salvation found in Jesus
alone, and to make room for God’s blessing to flow into lives,
families, communities and nations!
If
you are interested in exploring your place in what God is doing in
CEEDS and ICF, we’d love to talk with you! Feel free to email me
at justin.byakweli@ceedsusa.org.
In
Christ,
Justin
Byakweli
Pastor
of International Christian Fellowship & Executive Director of
CEEDS